Some of you may recall a blog I wrote a while back concerning an estranged friend. It was clear in my writing that I was still angry, after years of hurt, confusion, and questions gone unanswered. At that time, I was convinced that I would not give the time of day to this person, not again in this lifetime.
However, about a month ago I received a note from her. A note of apology. A number of conversations later we are on our way back towards friendship. Something I never thought possible. I am still bewildered by how far a heartfelt, truthful apology can go. If someone had told me prior to this that I would forgive her someday, I would have laughed in their face.
Well, I am not laughing... I am smiling. I have decided that forgiveness is better than carrying the burden of anger any longer. Something big has been lifted from me, and for that I am grateful. And to top it off, I may have gained a friend... an old friend in a new way.
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Oh Sarah! I almost cried reading this. So beautiful and so true. I pray you both find the complete healing so your friendship flourishes. And if that's not meant to be, I'm thrilled that you at least have that peace in your heart.
wow, this is really inspiring. good for you for finding forgiveness and accepting it! i need to work on that. so glad your friendship is growing strong again.
Good for you Sarah, I know this is something that has weighed heavy on your heart so I'm happy for you! You are a great example for others.
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